Immigration to USA is a marketing / advertising / Hollywood fanatsy then booby trap.
https://old.reddit.com/r/politics/comments/1pgwjim/immigrants_approved_for_citizenship_plucked_out/
The wealthy create the film and TV fantasy, then pull the trap.
You are Fired'd "The Apprentice" application values to immigrants.
Marriage meetaphors:
Married for eternal with a lavish wedding: but no desire to work together and solve problems and it is not eternal and all. And the children in the marriage are raised with those values.
Marriage is a construct of egoism, reducing ego, not sex. Sex and sharing comes with the love generated by reducing ego and learning shared rituals and choice making.
On a job scale, national scale, scam jobs, predatory abuse. Sports mentality of competittion and "winning" by defeating.